Caring for aging parents or other loved ones? There are people who will gladly assist with eldercare tasks and there are people who will take care of you.
Who helps? Family members, friends, neighbors, and volunteers. Some people cooperate without any hesitation, others run in the opposite direction. As difficult as it may be at times, keep asking for help.
Sometimes people want to be of service but they do not know what you need. Be precise when defining “help” by making a list of the big and little things that are demanding your attention.
Here are a few of the more common tasks that others can help you with:
Homemaker Services—household maintenance and repairs, house cleaning, laundry, errands, grocery shopping, cooking, and transportation.
Professional Care—bathing, dressing, feeding, toileting, shaving, grooming, bed and chair transferring, medications management.
Quality of Life—companionship, outside social activities, fitness routines, religious/spiritual pursuits.
It is always a good thing when others pitch in; but have you thought about the many advantages your loved ones doing tasks themselves? Check out the variety of independent-living products that would make your caregiving experience less stressful.
Due to limiting physical conditions, many people struggle with common daily tasks – like eating and drinking and putting on socks. In these situations, a proven, quality product will make these ordinary tasks much less difficult.
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As a family caregiver, I am used to helping people; but I have found that my aging parents and loved ones are the happiest when I can provide ways for them to do things for themselves.
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